Saturday, January 30, 2010

Take something from the fog...


















Guess where she got those big brown eyes?

So "mama" in English of course is mother but in Turkish it means baby food, nursing etc. and is actually also used for pet food.

I refer to my husband as "baba"-daddy when I speak to baby girl about him and he is trying to use "mama' but usually slips to say "anne"-Turkish for mother since mama has that double meaning. He's trying...

I just would like her to refer to me as "mama"- the mother I know not Anne but I bet it will all work out- We are doing well adjusting to the flow of our little family...

Below are lovely words that Keryn at eighty days design had posted and I needed to share with others...Also check out her great pictures and gorgeous cards...

"When we feel muddled and unfocused, unsure of which way to turn, we say we are in a fog. Similar to when we are in a fog in nature, we may feel like we can’t see where we’re going or where we’ve come from, and we’re afraid if we move too quickly we might run into something hidden in the mists that seem to surround us. Being in a fog necessarily slows us down by limiting our visibility. The best choice may be to pull over and wait for the murkiness to clear. If we move at all, we must go slowly, feeling our way and keeping our eyes open for shapes emerging from the haze, perhaps relying on the taillights of someone in front of us as we make our way along the road. By and large, most of us prefer to be able to see where we are going and move steadfastly in that direction, but there are gifts that come from being in a fog. Sometimes it takes an obstacle like fog to get us to stop and be still in the moment, doing nothing. In this moment of involuntary inactivity, we may look within and find that the source of our fogginess is inside us; it could be some emotional issue that needs tending before we can safely go full steam ahead.


Being in a fog reminds us that when we cannot see outside ourselves, we can always make progress by looking within. Then again, the fog may simply be teaching us important lessons about how to continue moving forward with extreme caution, harnessing our attention, watching closely for new information, and being ready to stop on a dime. We cannot predict when a fog will come, nor can we know for certain when it will lift, but we can center ourselves in the haze and wait for guidance. We may find it inside ourselves or in a pair of barely visible taillights just ahead. Whether we follow the lights out of the fog, wait for a gentle breeze to lift it, or allow the sun to burn it away, we can rest certain that one way or another, we will move forward with clarity once again"

Words from Daily Om

4 comments:

renai said...

Gorgeous brow eyed girl!

Great words, arent they? I sent them to her when she was in a fog so I'm glad to see they are getting around.

We call our mum "mumma" and I love it when when I hear my nephews call her that too. They call our dad "pa". I often wondered about Turkish people's interpretation of hearing kids call their mum's "muma" given the mother's milk/food association! But I love it!!

mag said...

Yay, I a mso glad you posted again. That is such a cute photo of Mavi and Caglar! Love you and MISS you all.

aprons said...

I think the fog description certainly describes how we all are feeling these days. Almost more so than when things were so busy and no time to think. I can't believe some of the things I do. I like the comparison with nature.
Thank you for writing and keeping us all linked day tday with you. We all miss you so much but are so happy you are together as a family, as it should be. Love is sent your way everyday

Anonymous said...

Glad you could take something from those words too Em. Renai sent them to me at a appropriate time and they shed some light on how I have been feeling.